1. Understand What Kind of Stimulation You Want

Before choosing a specific product, it is important to think about what type of stimulation you enjoy or are curious about. Different toys are designed to stimulate different areas of the body.

1.1 External stimulation

External stimulation focuses on areas such as the clitoris, nipples and other sensitive external zones. Many beginners prefer starting here because these toys are simple to use and do not require penetration.

At Buzz & Lace, options such as external vibrators and remote-controlled stimulators are designed to deliver gentle to powerful sensations without feeling intimidating.

1.2 Internal stimulation

Internal toys are designed for penetration and may be straight, curved or textured. Some are shaped specifically to target internal pleasure points, such as the G-spot.

Buzz & Lace offers a variety of insertable toys, including realistic dildos and vibrators, suitable for different comfort levels.

1.3 Combination stimulation

Some toys combine internal and external stimulation in one design. These are often chosen by people who already know they enjoy multiple types of sensation at once, but they can also be suitable for beginners who feel ready to explore further.

1.4 Specialised stimulation

There are also toys designed for specific purposes, such as pelvic floor training, erection support, anal play or hands-free pleasure. These toys usually have safety features built into their design to ensure comfort and control.

2. Decide on the Right Toy Type

Once you understand what kind of stimulation you want, choosing the type of toy becomes much easier.

2.1 Vibrators

Vibrators are one of the most popular and beginner-friendly options. They come in many shapes and sizes and offer different vibration patterns and intensities.

Bullet vibrators are small, discreet and easy to control. Wand-style vibrators are larger and often more powerful, making them suitable for external stimulation across different areas of the body.

Buzz & Lace stocks body wands and compact vibrators that are rechargeable, waterproof and designed with comfort in mind.

2.2 Dildos

Dildos are designed primarily for penetration and do not always considered vibration. They can be smooth or textured, realistic or abstract in shape.

Silicone dildos are particularly popular due to their flexibility, comfort and ease of cleaning. For beginners, smaller sizes with simple shapes are often the most comfortable starting point.

2.3 Cock rings

Cock rings are designed to enhance sensation and help maintain firmness. Some models include vibration features that provide stimulation for both partners during use.

Buzz & Lace offers vibrating cock rings that are rechargeable and adjustable, making them suitable for both solo and partnered play.

2.4 Kegel and pelvic floor toys

Kegel toys are designed to help strengthen pelvic floor muscles. Many people find that regular use can enhance sensation and control during intimate moments.

Products such as weighted Kegel balls allow users to progress gradually at their own pace.

3. Choose Body-Safe Materials

Material choice is one of the most important factors when selecting a sex toy.

3.1 Silicone

Medical-grade silicone is non-porous, hypoallergenic and easy to clean. It is one of the safest and most comfortable materials available and is widely used across Buzz & Lace products.

3.2 ABS plastic

ABS plastic is smooth, body-safe and non-porous. It is commonly used in bullet vibrators and compact toys.

3.3 What to avoid

Avoid toys made from porous materials unless they are clearly labelled as body-safe and phthalate-free. Porous materials can harbour bacteria if not cleaned thoroughly.

4. Size and Shape Matter

Comfort should always come before size. Especially for beginners, choosing a toy that feels manageable will make the experience far more enjoyable.

4.1 Start smaller rather than larger
4.2 Look for gentle curves if targeting internal pleasure points
4.3 Ensure insertable toys have a base or handle for control and safety

Reading product dimensions and descriptions on Buzz & Lace can help you choose a size that suits your comfort level.

5. Power Options and Controls

Different toys are powered in different ways, and each option has its benefits.

5.1 Rechargeable toys

Rechargeable toys are convenient, environmentally friendly and often more powerful. They typically offer consistent vibration and multiple settings.

5.2 Battery-powered toys

Battery-powered toys are often more affordable and easy to travel with. They can be a good starting point for first-time buyers.

6. Features Worth Considering

Modern sex toys often include features designed to improve comfort, remember preferences and enhance enjoyment.

6.1 Multiple vibration patterns
6.2 Waterproof or splashproof designs
6.3 Quiet motors for discretion
6.4 Remote or app-controlled options

Many Buzz & Lace toys include these features, allowing you to tailor your experience.

7. Hygiene and Safety

Proper care ensures your toy remains safe and enjoyable to use.

7.1 Clean toys before and after each use using warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner
7.2 Allow toys to dry fully before storage
7.3 Store toys separately to prevent material contact
7.4 Use an appropriate lubricant to reduce friction and increase comfort

Always follow the care instructions provided with each product.

8. Build Confidence Through Exploration

There is no single “perfect” toy for everyone. Pleasure is personal, and learning what your body enjoys can take time.

Many people start with a simple external vibrator, then gradually explore other types as confidence grows. Buzz & Lace offers discreet shipping and detailed product descriptions to help you explore comfortably and privately.

9. Choosing the Right Toy Is About You

Your body, comfort level and curiosity should guide your choices. Take your time, read descriptions carefully and start with something that feels approachable. There is no rush and no right or wrong choice.

Buzz & Lace is designed to support your journey with carefully selected products that prioritise quality, safety and pleasure.